I have stumbled upon this page and and you all seem to have some great experiences and are very non judgmental and am hoping you can offer some advise. Back in September, my father-73 yo- and I made the decision to help my nephew- turned 18 the end of September- move to our town from his hurricane devastated area where he lived with his mother. Once here, he was living with me and was given basic rules of the house, no drugs-including weed, no alcohol, and to stay away from my friends daughters. The same rules as my 19 year old twins live with. Nothing different. Well, within 4 weeks he managed to disobey all 3 of them on several occasions. Things blew up one night when he basically told my husband that he didn't care about breaking our rules and being so incredibly disrespectful that we booted him and he went to stay with my 73 year old father. Fast forward to now and he's managed to wreck a car, continually lie, get fired from 2 jobs and has been overly disrespectful to my father. My dad needs this kid to be out of his house and has given him the date of the 28th of this month to be full time employed and out of his house. He has since found out a few major lies the kid has been telling him and wants him out now. My question is how, within the law, do you physically get an 18 year old out of your home and onto a plane to return to his mother.