Well today I took my difficult child to the doctor. He prescribed him Xanax and Tegretol. He also prescribed him vitamins, vitamin E, B12, multivitamin. He said it was good he was living home withus right now because he needed to - he couldnt struggle and be homeless and pay his probation, etc. I asked some questions - he said he was just now diagnosing him - severe ADHD. We will see what happens. I believe difficult child wants to change. Right now I just dont know what to do. It is so hard to kick him out when it seems hopeless especially when the doctor says we need to give him a chance. I told him about him smoking pot on our property, etc. I just dont know.