Daughter married cult/clan like family to beat her sister to the altar. She tells everyone she is happy and has three children. This past summer his mother, who lives two houses away and is in touch with our daughter daily, was sick. My husband and I helped the entire summer and our daughter acted like she did before marriage. His mother is better and has taken over again. So much more about this whole situation. It is confusing and complicated. Our daughter recently texted my husband and said I ruin everything and am not supportive of her family. How do we wake up our daughter? Both her husband and mother-in-law are manipulative and controlling.