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Hi rlsnights,
On his speech, his brother and father had issues( his father mainly due to being half Korean). The second speech teacher said yes, he can sometimes be hard to understand, but he can and has been able to communicate with her so there is no reason for this to be part of it. His third one(other had to quit due to complication of her pregnancy) said he is ok except for his"L"s and the teachers understand him as well as the kids for the most part. (As long as he talks at regular speed or a tad slower). Actually, I have video taped him, but not right before an explosion,sadly only during or during times when he was fine and never threw a fit. I will get those "nanny cams" that record for 24 hours.The school, Dr's and that Pysc Dr saw his arms and head and just said that he will grow out of it.In the begining the Dr's wanted him on a medication just to get some of his temper (biting,head banging,trashing house to stop or slow down so they can "get through" to him,but as I said changed their mind when he was listening to them! I had video and they refused to see it but the school wants to see it.Ok, my dad did go in to the Dr's and told them the same thing and told him he wants to move out because of my son! They still didnt change their mind! My sister is worried about her pets and her being able to not to handle him for a long period of time, so even a week with her (paid ) she said "no". They said nothing. As far as the Dr, my friend one time had to help me put him in the acr to take him for a different issue( loose stools turned out to be Encropis )and the security gaurd and nurse had to help get"convince him " out of the car! He calms down in front of strangers,may be still crying tho and breathing hard. I just have it pounded in me that its all me.He even hit/spit on me after I corrected him at his doctors office nott o playfully spit on his sister, I just said" please dont spit, its not nice"he came over and boom!IWhen I tried to put him in timeout there, thats when he hit me! Of course the front desk said nothing! In fact another night ,Wed when we got home from the Dr's he was ok for a bit, then all of a sudden just got so mad and tantrum! Thursday,I woke him up(have to tickle him or play a game cuz hes hard to get up) and he was laughing and ok. My dad even told my kids, he will take them to the bakery before school so they have to leave a little erlier to go, get ready! My son, wanted to play and take his time. Well, when he was finallyy ready to go, it was too late to go, so straight to school it was. My son got out of the car and then, threw chairs down,bit himself,screaming,pounded the doors and called my friends to take him to school.She came, he changed his mind,so after a few minutes she just picked him up and put him in the car! Its something how we either make him mad for any reason, or, he can me mad all of a sudden reason unknown or hes fine! And yes, I will get that book and stop "giving" in" all the time!
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On his speech, his brother and father had issues( his father mainly due to being half Korean). The second speech teacher said yes, he can sometimes be hard to understand, but he can and has been able to communicate with her so there is no reason for this to be part of it. His third one(other had to quit due to complication of her pregnancy) said he is ok except for his"L"s and the teachers understand him as well as the kids for the most part. (As long as he talks at regular speed or a tad slower). Actually, I have video taped him, but not right before an explosion,sadly only during or during times when he was fine and never threw a fit. I will get those "nanny cams" that record for 24 hours.The school, Dr's and that Pysc Dr saw his arms and head and just said that he will grow out of it.In the begining the Dr's wanted him on a medication just to get some of his temper (biting,head banging,trashing house to stop or slow down so they can "get through" to him,but as I said changed their mind when he was listening to them! I had video and they refused to see it but the school wants to see it.Ok, my dad did go in to the Dr's and told them the same thing and told him he wants to move out because of my son! They still didnt change their mind! My sister is worried about her pets and her being able to not to handle him for a long period of time, so even a week with her (paid ) she said "no". They said nothing. As far as the Dr, my friend one time had to help me put him in the acr to take him for a different issue( loose stools turned out to be Encropis )and the security gaurd and nurse had to help get"convince him " out of the car! He calms down in front of strangers,may be still crying tho and breathing hard. I just have it pounded in me that its all me.He even hit/spit on me after I corrected him at his doctors office nott o playfully spit on his sister, I just said" please dont spit, its not nice"he came over and boom!IWhen I tried to put him in timeout there, thats when he hit me! Of course the front desk said nothing! In fact another night ,Wed when we got home from the Dr's he was ok for a bit, then all of a sudden just got so mad and tantrum! Thursday,I woke him up(have to tickle him or play a game cuz hes hard to get up) and he was laughing and ok. My dad even told my kids, he will take them to the bakery before school so they have to leave a little erlier to go, get ready! My son, wanted to play and take his time. Well, when he was finallyy ready to go, it was too late to go, so straight to school it was. My son got out of the car and then, threw chairs down,bit himself,screaming,pounded the doors and called my friends to take him to school.She came, he changed his mind,so after a few minutes she just picked him up and put him in the car! Its something how we either make him mad for any reason, or, he can me mad all of a sudden reason unknown or hes fine! And yes, I will get that book and stop "giving" in" all the time!
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