Andrea,
I too live on a very fixed income. What I did to prove the intensity of my difficult child's rages was to go and buy a small hand-held tape recorder. Granted, they couldn't get the visual of the rage, but they could HEAR what was going on during one. I would carry it with me at all times (it would fit in my pockets) and as soon as he would start to go into one (soon as I saw him heading for one), I would hit record. They aren't real expensive and you can buy them at a K-mart, Wal-Mart, etc.
As for charting, get a 3-ring notebook and just basically keep track of his moods. I can give you a url of a sample if you give me a lil while to track it down.
I too live on a very fixed income. What I did to prove the intensity of my difficult child's rages was to go and buy a small hand-held tape recorder. Granted, they couldn't get the visual of the rage, but they could HEAR what was going on during one. I would carry it with me at all times (it would fit in my pockets) and as soon as he would start to go into one (soon as I saw him heading for one), I would hit record. They aren't real expensive and you can buy them at a K-mart, Wal-Mart, etc.
As for charting, get a 3-ring notebook and just basically keep track of his moods. I can give you a url of a sample if you give me a lil while to track it down.