hearts and roses
Mind Reader
Since this was the therapist's suggestion, how about suggesting a joint session to discuss the terms with therapist as the mediator? That way everyone's concerns can be put on the table. ;-)
As it happens, difficult child is going to the therapist this afternoon and she's going to ask if it's okay that I attend the next appointment so we can discuss these issues and some of difficult child's past. Thank you (and everyone) for your input. I do not think that this is going to happen, but H at least was able to discuss it without laughing.