I definitely get it. Have a six year old with guardianship and a 13 month old who tested positive for meth at birth so we’re foster parents. Both from daughter, 30 years old.
I get it. I do have custody/guardianship of grandchild. He's been with us since birth. For us, it's our daughter's mental health issues. It's not entirely unique, I guess. Sadly. It's a daily struggle for us dealing with our dear daughter who just isn't able to step outside herself.