Alphabet Lady, I was stymied by this with my own difficult child and he didn't do a tenth of what Casey did. They could take her to therapy - if she would go and cooperate. highly unlikely to be more than a waste as she felt nothing was wrong with her or her actions. They could try for medications if there was some symptom or a full exam showed a mental health issue. Again, probably not effective. I doubt they could get her into an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) - at least not if it was reputable. there are those who take anyone and are truly abusive rather than tough and therapeutic. Again, not very effective because she would most likely figure out what they wanted to hear and tell it to them. they could press charges when they found that she had stolen from her family, and encouraged the friends she stole from to press charges. But that would just either put her on house arrest which George and Cindy would have to monitor or it would land her where she is now - jail where she could learn all kinds of ways to evade the law and do what she wanted. There is a reason that some cops call jail "criminal college" - it is where skills are taught are taught and learned.
Honestly, maybe they could have not given her so many things, material ones, but I doubt it would have done much except have her steal to get what she wanted. But even that probably would have little impact in the long run. I do think that early therapy could have ruled in or out the abuse defense. But I am not sure it would have helped a whole lot. Casey could claim she didn't tell because she was scared, etc...
I can somewhat imagine their horror and anger and other extreme emotions toward Casey. On some level they likely feel responsible - even thought they are NOT, and no one wants to raise a child to become a murderer. At least not anyone with even a bit of human decency.
As for the constant lies, a while back someone posted a link to a youtube video made by a mom who was raising kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). She actually had quite a few of the videos. She said that she never tried to catch them in a lie - and purposely would not ask questions like "did you do X?" or "who did Y?". I cannot describe the approach from the video because my mind is going wonky from allergy medications, but I found the link to her videos on youtube and they are as I remembered them - great advice and examples of how they work in her home with her kids. Now I don't think Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is what Casey Anthony has, nor do I think many of our difficult children have it, but the method is still one taht is quite helpful. Would not have helped in this case, it was just too big for this approach to work, but if used much earlier it might have helped. I esp like the way the mom in the video talks about how things went before she learned and was able to consistently do the various things she is discussing. in my opinion that makes a big difference because it isn't some "expert" who has treated people with the disorder and then went home to his life, it is from someone in the trenches like us.
Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/user/christinemoers?feature=chclk#p/u/2/iDnEy8Rn4fY
Honestly, maybe they could have not given her so many things, material ones, but I doubt it would have done much except have her steal to get what she wanted. But even that probably would have little impact in the long run. I do think that early therapy could have ruled in or out the abuse defense. But I am not sure it would have helped a whole lot. Casey could claim she didn't tell because she was scared, etc...
I can somewhat imagine their horror and anger and other extreme emotions toward Casey. On some level they likely feel responsible - even thought they are NOT, and no one wants to raise a child to become a murderer. At least not anyone with even a bit of human decency.
As for the constant lies, a while back someone posted a link to a youtube video made by a mom who was raising kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). She actually had quite a few of the videos. She said that she never tried to catch them in a lie - and purposely would not ask questions like "did you do X?" or "who did Y?". I cannot describe the approach from the video because my mind is going wonky from allergy medications, but I found the link to her videos on youtube and they are as I remembered them - great advice and examples of how they work in her home with her kids. Now I don't think Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is what Casey Anthony has, nor do I think many of our difficult children have it, but the method is still one taht is quite helpful. Would not have helped in this case, it was just too big for this approach to work, but if used much earlier it might have helped. I esp like the way the mom in the video talks about how things went before she learned and was able to consistently do the various things she is discussing. in my opinion that makes a big difference because it isn't some "expert" who has treated people with the disorder and then went home to his life, it is from someone in the trenches like us.
Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/user/christinemoers?feature=chclk#p/u/2/iDnEy8Rn4fY