Welcome back NL! I also did not remember your saying you were sick. I KNOW stress does that to ME. It's happened a few times after extremely stressful situations. I even get psoriasis in a few odd spots after a particularly stressful situation. It is so weird how quickly my body reacts. And the older I get, it scares me a bit. I am a worry wart also which is not helpful even though I do work on that. Please take care of yourself. Also sorry to hear about your girls' situations but agree with Copa that having either home with you and your son just cannot be the right solution. I just pray these things get them closer to THEM wanting to change THEIR lives. That's all you can do. Your stance and mindset on all of this has always been so powerful to me, especially when things were rough here. My coworker tells me how I am selfless. I have only known her since July when I moved here but we are kindred spirits. I told her that I do not see myself like that at all but that after what my family has been through, I'm just happy to do anything I can to make those that I love happy or let them be happy. My mother often said that hell is here on earth and at times I think that is true.