I haven’t had contact with my son since he got locked up . I thought about visiting but I know it will just turn into how I can help him out ,or him trying to manipulate me or make me feel guilty.Probation officer said he’s doing ok & no fights. Court was suppose to be next week but due to them being so behind in cases , it is now pushed back to February 28th so he’ll be spending more time there then Im sure he expected. Hes so use to getting off easy or being able to runaway from situations. My question is should I go visit? I feel bad for not going, I just didn’t want it to be a bad visit and upset him or leave there feeling horrible.Im torn about going to see him.I don’t know what is the right thing to do.