JayPee
Sending good vibes...
Okie,
I posted on probably the wrong forum yesterday but I have the same thoughts, concerns and worries as you. I'm not blocking my son who lives in his car and has been homeless off and on for three years but I sometimes feel it's worst. He's not being mean or difficult but he never did anything to help his situation due to his own PTSD and ADHD like getting a job, functioning in society etc. Right now he's living off $200 he got back from holding down a job for something like 7 weeks in 2019. That's his everything $. I've tried to tell him to go into a shelter but he refuses and said no one's going to force him.
It pains me so much but because of his instability and past behavior towards me and ex-husband when he doesn't get his way, I cannot have him live with me. I feel so horrible because I can't even suggest he get a job etc., because with everything as it is right now he'd likely not find a job.
I'm sure he thinks I'm a horrible mother, with the world feeling like it's coming to an end and I won't let him live with me.
So torn and hurting over this.
The best thing we can do is pray for them and us.
Sending good thoughts to you.
I posted on probably the wrong forum yesterday but I have the same thoughts, concerns and worries as you. I'm not blocking my son who lives in his car and has been homeless off and on for three years but I sometimes feel it's worst. He's not being mean or difficult but he never did anything to help his situation due to his own PTSD and ADHD like getting a job, functioning in society etc. Right now he's living off $200 he got back from holding down a job for something like 7 weeks in 2019. That's his everything $. I've tried to tell him to go into a shelter but he refuses and said no one's going to force him.
It pains me so much but because of his instability and past behavior towards me and ex-husband when he doesn't get his way, I cannot have him live with me. I feel so horrible because I can't even suggest he get a job etc., because with everything as it is right now he'd likely not find a job.
I'm sure he thinks I'm a horrible mother, with the world feeling like it's coming to an end and I won't let him live with me.
So torn and hurting over this.
The best thing we can do is pray for them and us.
Sending good thoughts to you.
