Wow I didn't know there was a place to go for this! My story sounds the same as a lot of other peoples. My daughter is 19 is unemployed, can't seem to hang onto a job. Last weekend I found out that she stole some jewelry from me and pawned it. One was wedding rings that belonged to my mother (who passed away in June) that my father gave her. My daughter denies taking these but does cop to stealing a necklace and earrings that were my great grandmothers. Last November she was stopped for a dui and has yet to complete anything that she is supposed to do. She signed up for victims panel twice (both times I paid) and "forgot" to go. Now she has a court date on the 22nd of November for compliance. I ended up kicking her out (she's been gone a week and is living with her boyfriends grandparents, since the boyfriend doesn't work either they are both freeloading on this people. I gave her the money yet again for victims panel told her to go get it taken care of yesterday. She lied to me and told me she did it but when I asked for proof she had a fit. Finally got it out of her today that she hadn't done it. I'm at the end of my rope and don't know if I am doing the right thing by kicking her out or not. I did tell her that once she gets a job we would talk about her moving back in at that time. I haven't changed the locks yet but I'm thinking about doing so this weekend. Thanks for letting me vent! I never thought I'd be the type of parent that would kick out her daughter, but I'm honestly tired of dealing with it.