I didn't realize that I had become a member of this website 8 years ago. It kind of puts it into perspective how long my now adult son of 21 has been playing me like a puppet. Putting me on a guilt trip as so many of yours are. I can't thank all of you enough for giving me the courage and the strength to push forward. I am at the point where I am ready to choose the rest of my family over him. It would be interesting to hear from any of you who are further down that road than I am at the moment. Have you come across any obstacles along the way and how has the navigation around it been.