I told husband and easy child this afternoon. easy child was totally shocked, but husband wasn't as shocked as he could have been. We *are* talking about difficult child, after all. It's been a couple of hrs, so I had difficult child come home after errands and we are all going to sit and talk. husband is mostly concerned with-difficult child getting a job and making money for his potential new life. And the fact that he should have been doing that all along ... but I told him I just want to be supportive at this moment. Details will come later. Just take it one day at a time. And it seemed like husband was more upset about my not telling him immediately than about the "announcement"! Good think I only waited two days. difficult child is upset that I told at all. He doesn't get how this impacts the entire family. That's part of what will will talk about right now.