That's part of the problem. He doesn't see it as us being taken advantage of by proxy. After J1 got kicked out of the shelter, he gave J1 the bus pass that WE gave him because "I at least have a bed to sleep in! He has nothing!" I don't know if he does things like this to help people or so he has an excuse when it causes him to fail. The last issue that got him kicked out of the shelter when J1 had his phone is a prime example of this. As I had to co-sign for him, shy of burning the place down he won't get kicked out. In order to protect my credit I will have to pay the rent if he doesn't. Because of that, he has a place until June 1 but as we have said before, if he screws this up by spending his money on crap and not paying his bills then our help is done.