Well the has hit the fan at the grandparents house. He says, "They don't listen. They think I'm a lazy piece of ***. They say my job hunting isn't good enough." A Difficult Child singing the song of his people. My response was, "Well, we never thought you job hunted sufficiently either. So you know, if everyone says so...maybe it's true!" That turned into the fact that they now know he's an atheist and according to him everything he does is "for Satan". I don't know about all that. I haven't talked to the grandparents. I told him I couldn't get in the middle of this. I have no control over his grandparents and I have no control over him. He's an adult and part of that is talking calmly with people and working things out. I repeated, "I'm sorry. There's nothing I can do about this." many, many times. And I had such a nice weekend.