It is just a terrible situation. We have changed the locks on our new home and we had a security system installed recently. I have not been to a therapist on my own but I am planning on doing so. My daughter has asked me to help her and I told her she has to be willing. She has continued asking me this week if I called a counselor and I have. If she fails to show up, I have full intentions of going myself. I am having back issues again-well they never went away but just progressed along with some new symptoms. Just had an MRI and have 2 ruptures, 2 annular tears, and much more going on and have had days where the pain is so bad I have not been able to walk, sit or stand for any length of time. This situation is horrible and I am praying to get through all of this. The lady police officer did advise me to not give up hope or turn my back on her--to answer her if she calls, texts or whenever she reaches out but I do agree with you all that boundaries are necessary. I can not say for certain about drugs and as bizarre and insane as this situation is, I have not felt that drugs are involved. She has gotten herself into something I believe deeper than she anticipated.